One more thing

Ummm, this baby. It will be coming in a few months. I can't begin to tell you how overwhelmed I am trying to figure out what we do and don't need. Crib or bassinet or pack n' play or all or some? Should the baby sleep in our room for the first few months where there is little room to maneuver) or in the bedroom right next door to us. Should I get a sling or an Ergo carrier? Do I worry about buying a breast pump and bottles now or later? Swing or bouncy seat? Don't get me started on choosing a particular crib and any other item. Trying to take into account safety, price, size (we're talking apartment here), style, and actual usefulness is an equation I have not yet figured out. Have I mentioned that I hate shopping?